What Light Reveals
I’m usually up before the sun, easing into my day while the world is still quiet. From my perch on the 18th floor, I begin most mornings by pulling open the shades and welcoming whatever the day has in store. And every morning, without fail, I catch sight of a fully lit Christmas tree glowing from an apartment window across the street.
Yes, it’s April—and yes, it’s still up.
And you know what? It makes me smile.
Some might roll their eyes or crack a joke about someone being lazy or out of touch. I’ll admit, there was a time when I might’ve been one of them. It’s easy to judge, to make assumptions, to label something we don’t understand. But what I’ve come to learn (and continue to learn) is that harsh judgment often says more about what we’re avoiding in ourselves than it ever does about someone else.
"That tree—it’s not leftover holiday décor. It’s a daily reminder. A gentle, steady symbol of light."
Back in January, I decided to see it that way. By February, it became a kind of morning ritual—catching that warm glow before anything else. And now, well into spring, it still shines. A quiet invitation to do the same.
Gabby Bernstein writes, “Shining your light is the best way to deal with negativity.” I believe that. When we lead with light—through a smile, a kind word, a gentle presence—we don’t just brighten someone else’s day, we illuminate something within ourselves too.
So, here’s my challenge to you: Be the light.
Smile at a stranger. Hold the door a little longer. Offer grace before judgment. Let people keep their trees up in April if it brings them joy.
This world doesn’t need more critics. It needs more compassion.
Let’s be part of that shift.
Love and Light,
Michele Heffron
If you’re ready to stop dimming your light to fit into what’s expected—and start living with more compassion, clarity, and purpose—let’s talk. Schedule a complimentary consultation with me, and together we’ll create a path forward that honors your truth and helps you shine, unapologetically.
Keep Up With Michele
REPLACEMENTS
In my latest blog, I share what discontinued china, Adele lyrics, and heartbreak taught me about patterns in love. Spoiler: If you keep attracting the same kind of relationship, the pattern might not be them—it might be you. (And that’s actually good news.)
This is your invitation to stop trying to recreate what didn’t work, and start creating something that truly fits the person you’re becoming.
|
|
EPISODE 50
When Mediation Meets Meaning: Co-Creating a Kinder Divorce
In this powerful and timely episode of Getting to the Heart, Michèle Heffron welcomes Ellen Barron Feldman, an attorney and seasoned divorce and family mediator, for a candid conversation about navigating divorce with compassion, clarity, and control.
Ellen shares her unique journey from commercial litigation to co-mediating with mental health expert Brian James, a partnership that bridges legal structure with emotional understanding. Together, they create a safe, collaborative space for couples to move through divorce thoughtfully—especially when children are involved.
You won't want to miss this episode!
|
