Self Care Saturday with Michèle Heffron



Micro-Declutter


Choose a single drawer or shelf that you’ve been avoiding. Slowly remove each item and consider if it still serves a purpose in your life. Notice how letting go of just a few unnecessary things can create a tiny pocket of calm in your home—and in your mind. Enjoy the lightness that follows.

Taking care of yourself, both mentally and physically, is crucial as you navigate life transitions. You're not alone, and there is a path forward, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. If you know someone that could use a little boost of Self Care, please feel free to share this tip with them by hitting the button below.


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Ep 41: Getting to the Heart


Every Other Weekend: Anthony Mohr’s Journey Through Divorce and Two Worlds


In this episode of Getting to the Heart – Life, Relationships, and Divorce, Michele Heffron sits down with Anthony (Tony) Mohr, retired Superior Court judge, Harvard Advanced Leadership Initiative fellow, and author of Every Other Weekend. Together, they explore Tony’s deeply personal journey growing up with two vastly different fathers—a Hollywood actor and a conservative businessman—while navigating the emotional complexities of a post-divorce childhood.

The conversation touches on everything from Tony’s Beverly Hills upbringing during the Golden Age of Hollywood to the lessons he learned living between two households with contrasting cultures and values. Tony reflects on how his experiences shaped his path from aspiring actor to lawyer and judge, as well as the wisdom he now shares with parents navigating divorce.

Michele and Tony discuss the importance of supporting children’s emotional well-being during divorce, including the value of therapy, listening to children, and fostering safe, supportive environments. Tony shares heartfelt stories about his family dynamics, his mother’s behind-the-scenes heroics, and the lessons parents can take away from his book, Every Other Weekend, which is equal parts memoir and a window into a unique era of American life.

This inspiring and insightful episode offers guidance, hope, and meaningful takeaways for anyone navigating co-parenting, family transitions, or personal growth.

You won't want to miss this episode!


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A Bright and Beautiful New Year to You

As we turn the page to 2025, it’s easy to feel the pull of New Year’s resolutions. That annual promise to “fix” ourselves or finally tackle a lingering goal. But let’s be honest—how often do those resolutions truly stick?

Here’s why: resolutions often focus on what we do without addressing who we are. They’re rooted in behavior, not identity. It’s like trying to build a house without a solid foundation—it might look good for a moment, but it can’t hold up over time.

Real, lasting change doesn’t come from a to-do list. It starts with aligning your actions to who you are becoming. When you’re clear on who that is, your choices naturally shift to support the life you’re creating.

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